by: Dennis.Blackmore on March 23, 2008 18:59:31     Leave a comment »

Contemplating divorce in Virginia Beach or Hampton Roads, VA?  Both parties agreeable to divide everything and sell your home? Can you get along during the divorce and real estate selling process?

If yes, then Mediation or Collaborative Divorce may be the best avenue to get through an unpleasant situation and selling your Virginia Beach or Hampton Roads home.

virginia beach real estate divorce Mediation means the couple agrees to use one "hopefully" neutral mediator.  The Mediator does not give legal advice or be an advocate for either side.

The choice more couples are now making is Collaborative Divorce.  Collaborative divorce involves the use of lawyers for both sides who agree from the beginning to work with each other to develop a fair outcome for everyone which includes division of property and selling of your home or any other real estate owned.  The collaborative divorce team may include Virginia Beach financial professionals, your REALTOR®, child specialists, or other professionals both spouses may agree upon.  The main point is they engage in meaningful dialogue which will bring the process to faster resolution and saving both parties unneeded grief, money, and selling your real estate quickly.     

Just like a real estate transaction where you choose your own separate closing attorney, you benefit from having your own personal legal representation that is committed to rapid and proper settlement.  The Lawyers for both sides ensure legal stipulations are satisfied. 

Why is this good? 

The most obvious - save thousands of dollars including real estate decisions.

Negotiate settlement without courts involved

Keeps communication open

Develop shared solutions which best benefit both parties

If children involved, keeping their best interests in the forefront

Maintain control of the divorce process

Will this work for you?

If you can agree to disagree, keep children first, listen, plan for the future, and be ethical then it can work. 

So with contested divorces potentially averaging in excess of $25,000.00, collaborative divorce may be a sensible option in Virginia Beach or Hampton Roads.  Unless you are Paul McCartney and have an extra 48 million and some change think about collaborative divorce.  Consult your attorney before making any decision. 

See how your Virginia Beach and Hampton Roads REALTOR® provides value to you. 

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